How do I send a reply to a PM?

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  • silvestrione
    Full Member
    • Jan 2011
    • 1722

    How do I send a reply to a PM?

    I presume I'm missing something obvious here, but I've tried to reply several times to a PM, and there is no evidence that it has gone anywhere (e.g. 'Sent Items' obstinately continues to say '0 items'!).
  • jean
    Late member
    • Nov 2010
    • 7100

    #2
    I think that unless you explicitly save your reply, you will never see it again even if the intended recipient gets it.

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    • Dave2002
      Full Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 18034

      #3
      You may not like my solution (partial at least), but if you cc yourself you'll at least see that the message was sent, and is at least readable, having travelled the internet, and been through servers etc. This does not guarantee that the intended recipient will bother to open it and read it, of course, nor that his/her system will collect the pm. I use this technique for regular email as well. Once you have satisfied yourself that things are as you want them to have been, you can delete your own copy from your own pmbox.

      This is a very useful technique sometimes, if emails or pms are particularly important, as it avoids you having to wait for ever for a response which was never actually sent properly.

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      • french frank
        Administrator/Moderator
        • Feb 2007
        • 30448

        #4
        Sorry - only just seen this

        Originally posted by silvestrione View Post
        I presume I'm missing something obvious here, but I've tried to reply several times to a PM, and there is no evidence that it has gone anywhere (e.g. 'Sent Items' obstinately continues to say '0 items'!).
        jean is right. You need to Save your Sent Messages

        Go to Settings top right of this page (next to Log Out)

        Under My Settings in l-h sidebar, scroll down to General Settings. In the r-h pane, scroll down to Private Messaging, and scrolling below that: click the radio button for Save a copy in my Sent Messages by default.
        It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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        • Dave2002
          Full Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 18034

          #5
          The only snag with the "Save in Sent Messages" method is that messages will be saved even if no copies wend their way across the internet. There really isn't a 100% guaranteed method of knowing that the original message arrives in the recipient's inbox, or that it is read by them, if they don't reply. You'll find out if they do reply, but otherwise you won't.

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          • french frank
            Administrator/Moderator
            • Feb 2007
            • 30448

            #6
            Originally posted by Dave2002 View Post
            The only snag with the "Save in Sent Messages" method is that messages will be saved even if no copies wend their way across the internet. There really isn't a 100% guaranteed method of knowing that the original message arrives in the recipient's inbox, or that it is read by them, if they don't reply. You'll find out if they do reply, but otherwise you won't.
            I confess this has never risen as a problem. Message tracking is enabled. Why not just request a receipt when you send each message? Just above the Save Sent copies: 'Request a read receipt for this message'. Under message tracking you can check the time it was sent and the time it was read (if it has been). I'm not sure that sending an email copy to yourself will guarantee that the message arrives in someone else's Inbox. And you can't make people read or reply. Some people don't seem to use PMs at all, and probably get quite used to seeing their Notifications link permanently lit up
            It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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