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  • Thropplenoggin
    Full Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 1587

    #16
    Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
    Britten and Pears were classical musicians, and therefore relevant to this forum. Tom Daley isn't. I hope this isn't yet another attempt to skew the forum towards a particular pet topic.
    I concur with EA on this occasion, which also brings to mind Dave2002's new thread: http://www.for3.org/forums/showthrea...m-be-rebranded

    Which subjects aren't to be discussed on FoR3?
    It loved to happen. -- Marcus Aurelius

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    • Stanfordian
      Full Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 9315

      #17
      Originally posted by VodkaDilc View Post
      I'm not 100% sure who he is, but I watched the youtube clip and was most impressed. Brave sentiments and put over with charm and confidence. Assuming he's some sort of sportsman, let's hope that it's a footballer next. (The statement, "Of course I still fancy girls" sounded a little confusing - but I suppose he's still confused himself.)
      Daley's sexuality has been the subject of rumour for some years. It's shame that in these times that anyone has to 'come out'. I pray for the day that we are not judged for being what we are.

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      • Barbirollians
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        • Nov 2010
        • 11709

        #18
        This surely goes to a much more general issue namely why are people so interested in celebrity's private lives and whether it is important to know about them ? It seems to me that in the creative arts it is potentially much more important than say in sport.

        In the creative arts it raises particular issues about appreciation of the works of musicians etc . How important was Britten's sexuality to an understanding of his works for example ? It does not relate only to sexuality of course - all manner of other life experiences influence creative works - Suk's Asrael symphony for example or Dvorak's interpolation of the Josefina theme in the finale of his Cello Concerto , Bruckner's faith etc

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        • Barbirollians
          Full Member
          • Nov 2010
          • 11709

          #19
          Originally posted by Stanfordian View Post
          Daley's sexuality has been the subject of rumour for some years. It's shame that in these times that anyone has to 'come out'. I pray for the day that we are not judged for being what we are.
          Yes let's hope that in 20 years say it is simply not news .

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          • french frank
            Administrator/Moderator
            • Feb 2007
            • 30329

            #20
            Originally posted by Thropplenoggin View Post
            I concur with EA on this occasion, which also brings to mind Dave2002's new thread: http://www.for3.org/forums/showthrea...m-be-rebranded

            Which subjects aren't to be discussed on FoR3?
            [My immediate reaction to Dave's thread was to the suggestion that the forum should be 'rebranded'. It's either 'branded' as the Radio 3 Forum or it has no reason to exist. There is free software available for those who want their own non-R3 forum, but that, as far as I could see, accounted for the decline of r3ok - it started as a popular off-shoot of the BBC messageboards but became a general social forum with no obvious purpose or focus except the people who chose to post there.]
            It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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            • Thropplenoggin
              Full Member
              • Mar 2013
              • 1587

              #21
              Originally posted by french frank View Post
              [My immediate reaction to Dave's thread was to the suggestion that the forum should be 'rebranded'. It's either 'branded' as the Radio 3 Forum or it has no reason to exist. There is free software available for those who want their own non-R3 forum, but that, as far as I could see, accounted for the decline of r3ok - it started as a popular off-shoot of the BBC messageboards but became a general social forum with no obvious purpose or focus except the people who chose to post there.]
              Here was my reaction.
              It loved to happen. -- Marcus Aurelius

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              • amateur51

                #22
                Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
                Britten and Pears were classical musicians, and therefore relevant to this forum. Tom Daley isn't. I hope this isn't yet another attempt to skew the forum towards a particular pet topic.
                My original post is clearly nothing to do with an attempt to skew the forum towards a particular pet topic.

                How later posts take the thread foward is surely an issue of tight hosting :whistle:

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                • Stunsworth
                  Full Member
                  • Nov 2010
                  • 1553

                  #23
                  Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
                  Britten and Pears were classical musicians, and therefore relevant to this forum. Tom Daley isn't. I hope this isn't yet another attempt to skew the forum towards a particular pet topic.
                  From the title of this part of the forum "Platform 3 The place to talk about anything".

                  For what it's worth I hope Daley and his partner are very happy together.
                  Last edited by Stunsworth; 02-12-13, 19:47.
                  Steve

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                  • Nick Armstrong
                    Host
                    • Nov 2010
                    • 26540

                    #24
                    Originally posted by Barbirollians View Post
                    I doubt it was simply the case as Caliban suggests that a newspaper had become aware that he was in a relationship with another man .There is a possibility his hand was forced. Generally , nowadays Article 8 ECHR stops newspapers printing stories about a person's sexuality as it is considered to be part of their private life and confidential and publication even if one is in the public eye is regarded as an actionable breach of confidence .

                    The main principle being what is in the public interest is not the same as what is interesting to the public . It appears he was quoted as denying he was gay in September in a newspaper and that may have enabled a newspaper to argue exposing dishonesty and hypocrisy as being in the public interest .If that were the case he may have decided to spike their guns.
                    I think we are saying the same thing Barb. Despite Article 8, newspapers will always have a go and will argue that a particular revelation isn't in breach of Art 8 e.g. for the reasons you suggest in your para 2. I think that probably was happening behind the scenes


                    Originally posted by Barbirollians View Post
                    In his case , I imagine , however a court would have been very sympathetic notwithstanding to a request for an injunction and not considered exposing his private life as justified .
                    That may very well be, but what I'm saying is that there was probably a (wise, I think) tactical decision not to go down the risky and expensive road to Injunctionsville, but - as you say - to spike the press's guns by breaking the story in the way TD did.
                    "...the isle is full of noises,
                    Sounds and sweet airs, that give delight and hurt not.
                    Sometimes a thousand twangling instruments
                    Will hum about mine ears, and sometime voices..."

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                    • teamsaint
                      Full Member
                      • Nov 2010
                      • 25210

                      #25
                      Good luck to Daley, its a very important issue.

                      Its a pity that just a little of the BBCs radio news coverage today couldn't have been used on this case as well.




                      Perhaps it was, and I missed it.
                      I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own.

                      I am not a number, I am a free man.

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                      • Flosshilde
                        Full Member
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 7988

                        #26
                        Originally posted by Thropplenoggin View Post
                        I concur with EA on this occasion, which also brings to mind Dave2002's new thread: http://www.for3.org/forums/showthrea...m-be-rebranded

                        Which subjects aren't to be discussed on FoR3?
                        Is this item of news any less relevant to the Board than, say, the favoured date for decking one's halls with boughs of holly?

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                        • french frank
                          Administrator/Moderator
                          • Feb 2007
                          • 30329

                          #27
                          Originally posted by Flosshilde View Post
                          Is this item of news any less relevant to the Board than, say, the favoured date for decking one's halls with boughs of holly?
                          I'm letting this run, but the clue is in the words 'item of news'.
                          It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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                          • Barbirollians
                            Full Member
                            • Nov 2010
                            • 11709

                            #28
                            Originally posted by Caliban View Post
                            I think we are saying the same thing Barb. Despite Article 8, newspapers will always have a go and will argue that a particular revelation isn't in breach of Art 8 e.g. for the reasons you suggest in your para 2. I think that probably was happening behind the scenes



                            That may very well be, but what I'm saying is that there was probably a (wise, I think) tactical decision not to go down the risky and expensive road to Injunctionsville, but - as you say - to spike the press's guns by breaking the story in the way TD did.
                            Indeed, I would not be at all surprised if that was not the judgment call that he and his advisers made . That if a newspaper was threatening to do this that it wasn't worth trying to spike it .

                            I hope that it is otherwise and he just finally decided he had had enough of speculation and was happy and confident enough to do it .

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                            • Petrushka
                              Full Member
                              • Nov 2010
                              • 12260

                              #29
                              Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
                              Britten and Pears were classical musicians, and therefore relevant to this forum. Tom Daley isn't. I hope this isn't yet another attempt to skew the forum towards a particular pet topic.
                              I agree with EA here. Quite why this is an item of news is beyond me. It's yet another example of the mind-numbing celebrity culture that pervades the media and all on this forum should be avoiding. I'm completely indifferent to what or who this young man is or may or may not do. It's a free country (I hope), let him get on with it.
                              "The sound is the handwriting of the conductor" - Bernard Haitink

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                              • Barbirollians
                                Full Member
                                • Nov 2010
                                • 11709

                                #30
                                Originally posted by Petrushka View Post
                                I agree with EA here. Quite why this is an item of news is beyond me. It's yet another example of the mind-numbing celebrity culture that pervades the media and all on this forum should be avoiding. I'm completely indifferent to what or who this young man is or may or may not do. It's a free country (I hope), let him get on with it.
                                He is a Olympic medal winning sportsman who was a child prodigy- not a manufactured celebrity with no other skill than trying to be famous.

                                The point I think is that this shouldn't be an item of news but it is .

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