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  • Petrushka
    Full Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 12229

    Originally posted by Pulcinella View Post
    Presumably she'd like to know how many people are likely to attend.
    I'm sure Tim will have a great and grand send-off.
    Hopefully, there will be a Forum presence?

    Paradoxically, in this age of mass communication, I've noticed how much more difficult it is nowadays to find out funeral details or, indeed, who has passed away. Local newspapers fulfilled this function very well in the past but most of those have disappeared. Seems to be by Facebook and word of mouth now, neither of which can be relied upon.
    "The sound is the handwriting of the conductor" - Bernard Haitink

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    • Serial_Apologist
      Full Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 37559

      If anyone does attend, it would be nice if they could pass on best wishes from the Forum.

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      • Joseph K
        Banned
        • Oct 2017
        • 7765

        Originally posted by Serial_Apologist View Post
        If anyone does attend, it would be nice if they could pass on best wishes from the Forum.

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        • PJPJ
          Full Member
          • Nov 2010
          • 1461

          Message from Sue Wheeler:

          "Just to let anyone who would like to attend Tim’s funeral it will be
          Friday 10th March 2023 at Worth Abbey at 2pm.if you would like to attend please message me asap"

          It's easy enough to find her on Facebook, but if impossible, please send me a message to forward to her.

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          • richardfinegold
            Full Member
            • Sep 2012
            • 7638

            Originally posted by PJPJ View Post
            Message from Sue Wheeler:

            "Just to let anyone who would like to attend Tim’s funeral it will be
            Friday 10th March 2023 at Worth Abbey at 2pm.if you would like to attend please message me asap"

            It's easy enough to find her on Facebook, but if impossible, please send me a message to forward to her.

            Thanks, I missed the March 10 part. As an aside, it seems like a long time between death and funeral. I am Jewish and and we have some sort of tradition (I am a non believer so don’t take me as an expert) to have a quick funeral. Since I have moved from where I was raised, this has caused a few problems where the small interval between death and burial caused disruptions.

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            • Petrushka
              Full Member
              • Nov 2010
              • 12229

              Originally posted by richardfinegold View Post
              Thanks, I missed the March 10 part. As an aside, it seems like a long time between death and funeral. I am Jewish and and we have some sort of tradition (I am a non believer so don’t take me as an expert) to have a quick funeral. Since I have moved from where I was raised, this has caused a few problems where the small interval between death and burial caused disruptions.
              Yes, it is a long time. My father was a funeral director for more than 60 years (apart from his RAF war service) and would have found this length of time to be unacceptable but, sadly, that's the way it seems to be these days. He always said that a long gap was not good for the family and any longer than ten days was unusual unless there were administrative delays at the crematorium, the death was sudden and subject to an inquest or if there were suspicious circumstances with police investigation.
              "The sound is the handwriting of the conductor" - Bernard Haitink

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              • oddoneout
                Full Member
                • Nov 2015
                • 9135

                Originally posted by richardfinegold View Post
                Thanks, I missed the March 10 part. As an aside, it seems like a long time between death and funeral. I am Jewish and and we have some sort of tradition (I am a non believer so don’t take me as an expert) to have a quick funeral. Since I have moved from where I was raised, this has caused a few problems where the small interval between death and burial caused disruptions.
                Jewish funerals are supposed to be within 24 hours which, as you say, can be difficult.
                I had been wondering about the noticeable increase in time between death and funerals, as it has happened with two recently for friends. It seems that a combination of factors have caused delays; a large number of deaths occurring, and a lack of people to deal with the admin for releasing the body - pathologists etc - seem to be two common ones.

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                • Serial_Apologist
                  Full Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 37559

                  Been a while since we've heard from Joseph K. Hope he's all right. Anyone heard anything? I may have his home email address.

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                  • antongould
                    Full Member
                    • Nov 2010
                    • 8774

                    Originally posted by Serial_Apologist View Post
                    Been a while since we've heard from Joseph K. Hope he's all right. Anyone heard anything? I may have his home email address.
                    Cloughie hasn’t posted for a while ….. I know he sometimes takes holidays from the forum …. probably a wise move …..

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                    • Bryn
                      Banned
                      • Mar 2007
                      • 24688

                      Originally posted by Serial_Apologist View Post
                      Been a while since we've heard from Joseph K. Hope he's all right. Anyone heard anything? I may have his home email address.
                      He's fairly active on Facebook. His most recent post there was 17 hours ago, regarding L Shankar's PhD thesis: https://www.facebook.com/10405099543...3615903814087/

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                      • eighthobstruction
                        Full Member
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 6425

                        Originally posted by antongould View Post
                        Cloughie hasn’t posted for a while ….. I know he sometimes takes holidays from the forum …. probably a wise move …..
                        ...he will not be feeling that good after 4-0 result against Owls
                        bong ching

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                        • antongould
                          Full Member
                          • Nov 2010
                          • 8774

                          Originally posted by eighthobstruction View Post
                          ...he will not be feeling that good after 4-0 result against Owls
                          Indeed 8o

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                          • Pulcinella
                            Host
                            • Feb 2014
                            • 10872

                            I hope that some of our currently absent friends might be encouraged to investigate and contribute to the new forum, with all its quirks.
                            Is there a plan to email the recent users list again with an update and an invitation to try us out?

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                            • french frank
                              Administrator/Moderator
                              • Feb 2007
                              • 30205

                              Originally posted by Pulcinella View Post
                              I hope that some of our currently absent friends might be encouraged to investigate and contribute to the new forum, with all its quirks.
                              Is there a plan to email the recent users list again with an update and an invitation to try us out?
                              Slight problem as it would take a while to work out who had posted, who had logged in but not posted and who had disappeared. I could do a very brief one that included everyone, whether they've reappeared or not.

                              Currently trying to sort out the problem with the Proms threads/Calendar ...
                              It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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                              • richardfinegold
                                Full Member
                                • Sep 2012
                                • 7638

                                Originally posted by french frank View Post

                                Slight problem as it would take a while to work out who had posted, who had logged in but not posted and who had disappeared. I could do a very brief one that included everyone, whether they've reappeared or not.

                                Currently trying to sort out the problem with the Proms threads/Calendar ...
                                That works

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