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  • richardfinegold
    Full Member
    • Sep 2012
    • 7638

    I just saw the Facebook post and was going to relay it here. Tim had also reached out to me on health issues through the years. Before he was diagnosed with myeloma he had received a commission from an institution in Southern Illinois to orchestrate the First Movement of Mahler Six for Brass Band. We were planning how to meet up at the premeire when he was diagnosed and his illness ended his travel days. Lately he drafted me into being a moderator in the facebook group that he formed for Classical Music. My last communication with him was over a week ago asking to be released from that obligation. He never replied and I had forgotten about it until PJPJ posted here earlier. R.I.P. Tim

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    • Pulcinella
      Host
      • Feb 2014
      • 10872

      Sad news indeed.
      My condolences too to Sue and his family and friends.

      Tim often used to ask on BaL threads, usually prematurely, 'Who won?'.
      Of course his illnesses have conquered him in the end, but really we've all won, through him being such a consistent and cheerful poster here, and a personal friend to many.
      And his arrangements will live on.

      RIP Tim

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      • HighlandDougie
        Full Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 3079

        Difficult to believe that those lists of what Tim was proposing to listen to - or had been listening to - will be no more. À very sad day indeed. Deepest condolences to Sue and Tim’s family. He will be greatly missed, although I like the idea of him serenading St Peter with one of his arrangements of something unlikely but majestic. RIP. BBM

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        • teamsaint
          Full Member
          • Nov 2010
          • 25190

          Very sad news indeed.
          Just to add to all the tributes above, Tim was somebody who vividly demonstrated that the online world can be a place that can be a good and very positive , where aspects of personality can really shine through, and where we can gain inspiration.
          I know we’ll all really miss his comments and thoughts here very much.

          Condolences to his family.

          I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own.

          I am not a number, I am a free man.

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          • Jonathan
            Full Member
            • Mar 2007
            • 944

            RIP Tim, I never actually met you in person but we exchanged CDs and had long chats via FB messenger. My deepest condolences to your family.
            Best regards,
            Jonathan

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            • JasonPalmer
              Full Member
              • Dec 2022
              • 826

              A very big loss it seems, rip.
              Annoyingly listening to and commenting on radio 3...

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              • Petrushka
                Full Member
                • Nov 2010
                • 12229

                This is such sad news. RIP Tim.
                "The sound is the handwriting of the conductor" - Bernard Haitink

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                • gurnemanz
                  Full Member
                  • Nov 2010
                  • 7379

                  Condolences. His contributions will be greatly missed.

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                  • Tony Halstead
                    Full Member
                    • Nov 2010
                    • 1717

                    This is terribly sad news. It was always a great pleasure to read Tim's postings on these boards. Deepest condolences to his family and friends. R.I.P. Tim, and I hope you are now playing in the celestial Brass Band.

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                    • french frank
                      Administrator/Moderator
                      • Feb 2007
                      • 30205

                      I'm late to the news (expecting visitors for coffee) but I add my condolences to his wife, family and friends. Apart from his breadth of musical knowledge, his outstanding characteristic was his cheerfulness, for some years now in the face of considerable adversity Tim.
                      It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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                      • oddoneout
                        Full Member
                        • Nov 2015
                        • 9135

                        Originally posted by jayne lee wilson View Post
                        When I'd mentioned my own ill health or depression Tim would send me a private message of support, and to share that wonderful, enriching love of music that brings us all together here in our discoveries, our mutual and divergent passions. It can't be the same without him; but continue we must in finding our meanings in what we try to do.

                        Farewell to the Maestro! You brought goodness and joy and music to the world.....
                        Indeed, and what better legacy could any of us hope for?

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                        • RichardB
                          Banned
                          • Nov 2021
                          • 2170

                          What sad news. His love for music doubtless kept him going through difficulties that would have had others giving up in despair. I did meet Tim once, in connection with a concert of course, in which the Brighton Philharmonic were playing The Planets and a new work by Martin Butler, and I happened to be in town. Several members of the predecessor of this forum were also present. It was a happy and convivial occasion, and good to have been able to put a face to the posts so to speak. My condolences to his family and friends.

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                          • Alain Maréchal
                            Full Member
                            • Dec 2010
                            • 1286

                            For some time now I have been an infrequent visitor to this forum, and it is with sadness that i read of the death of a longtime contributor, with whom I had in the past exchanged the very occasional post. I had noticed references to ill health, but it is always a surprise when somebody succumbs. I send my condolences to his family and friends, and I resolve to listen to music more often, while Time allows.

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                            • Joseph K
                              Banned
                              • Oct 2017
                              • 7765

                              Very sorry to hear this sad news. I concur with all the messages here, although I didn't talk much with Tim, I certainly appreciated his personality, such as it was conveyed over this internet forum, with its cheerfulness and lightness even in the face of his illnesses. RIP

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                              • DracoM
                                Host
                                • Mar 2007
                                • 12954

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