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  • kernelbogey
    Full Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 5735

    I just heard Michael Berkeley on Private Passions say to his guest (Diana Melly) 'some people say you are 'brutally honest'. It's an odd phrase, much used by a mechanic at my local garage - e.g. 'to be brutally honest, Kernel, you need a new gearbox'. It implies, in a peculiarly British way, that circumlocution would be more acceptable, and any other language is 'brutal'.
    Last edited by kernelbogey; 15-01-23, 13:19.

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    • Nick Armstrong
      Host
      • Nov 2010
      • 26523

      Originally posted by cat View Post
      I keep hearing e.g. "5 AM in the morning", has it suddenly taken hold or did I just not notice it before?
      Originally posted by Globaltruth View Post
      My pet hate is (particularly) politicans on the radio who say "LOOK"
      Yes, a big and probably irredeemable black mark from me to anyone perpetrating either of the above
      "...the isle is full of noises,
      Sounds and sweet airs, that give delight and hurt not.
      Sometimes a thousand twangling instruments
      Will hum about mine ears, and sometime voices..."

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      • smittims
        Full Member
        • Aug 2022
        • 4078

        'Brutal' or 'beastly' I suppose mean behaving like an animal. Many Animals behave better than many humans (e.g when it comes to wrecking the planet) so I'm careful about using those words.

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        • oddoneout
          Full Member
          • Nov 2015
          • 9144

          Originally posted by kernelbogey View Post
          I just heard Michael Berkeley on Private Passions say to his guest (Diana Melly) 'some people say you are 'brutally honest'. It's an odd phrase, much used by a mechanic at my local garage - e.g. 'to be brutally honest, Kernel, you need a new gearbox'. It implies, in a peculiarly British way, that circumlocution would be more acceptable, and any other language is 'brutal'.
          I see that one definition is "Disagreeably precise", which would apply in those cases, such as you instance, when you would actually prefer not hear the short, unpadded, version of what you suspect to be the case?
          Unfortunately brutally honest can also mean tactless, as was the case with two people I knew, both of whom reacted badly to that kind of brutal honesty being directed at them.

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          • Pianorak
            Full Member
            • Nov 2010
            • 3127

            Interviewees on radio: Thanks for having me.
            My life, each morning when I dress, is four and twenty hours less. (J Richardson)

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            • Serial_Apologist
              Full Member
              • Dec 2010
              • 37591

              Originally posted by Pianorak View Post
              Interviewees on radio: Thanks for having me.
              If you hadn't had me, I would have never been had.

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              • oddoneout
                Full Member
                • Nov 2015
                • 9144

                Originally posted by Pianorak View Post
                Interviewees on radio: Thanks for having me.
                It's been around for a long time in the context of someone who has accepted an invitation making a departure - as in thank you for coming, elicits thank you for having me.

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                • Ein Heldenleben
                  Full Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 6749

                  Originally posted by kernelbogey View Post
                  I just heard Michael Berkeley on Private Passions say to his guest (Diana Melly) 'some people say you are 'brutally honest'. It's an odd phrase, much used by a mechanic at my local garage - e.g. 'to be brutally honest, Kernel, you need a new gearbox'. It implies, in a peculiarly British way, that circumlocution would be more acceptable, and any other language is 'brutal'.
                  “To be honest your 15 year old Volvo needs a new gearbox . To be brutal they are going to take £1,950 off you for the privilege.”

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                  • cloughie
                    Full Member
                    • Dec 2011
                    • 22114

                    Originally posted by oddoneout View Post
                    It's been around for a long time in the context of someone who has accepted an invitation making a departure - as in thank you for coming, elicits thank you for having me.
                    Yes, sadly another good innocent old expression which has been corrupted.

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                    • french frank
                      Administrator/Moderator
                      • Feb 2007
                      • 30241

                      Originally posted by Pianorak View Post
                      Interviewees on radio: Thanks for having me.
                      It's invariable on the American media. "It's good to have you here." Two second pause. "Thanks for having me [on your show]."
                      It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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                      • Globaltruth
                        Host
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 4286

                        A general, lazy one which has crept is the use of “100%”

                        I’m sure you’ll agree with me it’s beyond irritating?
                        100%

                        And don’t get me started on ‘surreal’ else I’ll set your giraffe on fire.

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                        • Sir Velo
                          Full Member
                          • Oct 2012
                          • 3225

                          "Give him props".

                          Why, is he an actor?

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                          • smittims
                            Full Member
                            • Aug 2022
                            • 4078

                            Even worse, for me, than '100%' is 'one hundred per cent'.'

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                            • kernelbogey
                              Full Member
                              • Nov 2010
                              • 5735

                              dropped
                              ...as in [the film] making waves ever since the trailer dropped at the end of last year: Guardian today

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                              • johncorrigan
                                Full Member
                                • Nov 2010
                                • 10347

                                Originally posted by kernelbogey View Post
                                dropped
                                ...as in [the film] making waves ever since the trailer dropped at the end of last year: Guardian today
                                BBC Radio 6 Music jocks and jockesses are prone to saying 'this one dropped, while you were sleeping', when introducing a new tune...irritating! They also say, 'You're locked in to 6 Music...I find myself saying, 'no I'm not!', and to prove it I switch stations or switch off. That'll learn 'em!

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