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  • french frank
    Administrator/Moderator
    • Feb 2007
    • 30205

    Originally posted by vinteuil View Post

    ... a relative ?! - are you quite sure it wasn't a relation??

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    Synonyms. Cf OED for 'relative': 3a A person who is related to another or others by blood or marriage; a relation. Examples quoted date from 1650 to 1998.

    No reason to insist on using 'relation'. Is there?
    It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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    • vinteuil
      Full Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 12765

      Originally posted by french frank View Post

      Synonyms. Cf OED for 'relative': 3a A person who is related to another or others by blood or marriage; a relation. Examples quoted date from 1650 to 1998.

      No reason to insist on using 'relation'. Is there?
      ... it's Nancy Mitford - the use of one or t'other was seen as a class marker

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      • french frank
        Administrator/Moderator
        • Feb 2007
        • 30205

        Originally posted by vinteuil View Post

        ... it's Nancy Mitford - the use of one or t'other was seen as a class marker


        I don't harbour ideas above my station: I know my place. It's 'relative' in that context. I would say 'friends and relations', though - I'm quite versatile, if common . I say lounge and notepaper too.
        It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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        • vinteuil
          Full Member
          • Nov 2010
          • 12765

          Originally posted by french frank View Post
          I would say 'friends and relations', though...
          ... how can one not?

          what with AA Milne, and "Rabbit's Friends-and-Relations"

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          • Serial_Apologist
            Full Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 37559

            Originally posted by smittims View Post
            I've been hearing people say 'you was...' (as in 'I didn't now you was coming') occasionally for the first time since, I think, the 1960s, when it fell out of use after it had been eradicated by state education. Is the revival a lifestyle affectation? This morning I even heard a Radio4 presenter use it in an interview (yes,really!).
            Now, when I were a lad....

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            • Serial_Apologist
              Full Member
              • Dec 2010
              • 37559

              Originally posted by french frank View Post

              No complicated grammar in Somerset: it's I be, You be, He, She or It be; We be, You be, They be. Who said English was difficult?

              I noted a young relative with a BA and an MA referring on WhatsApp to 'Her and her workmates are'. As I am only a theoretical pedant, I have to concede that his usage is … correct
              In Devon as well, probably Dorset and Cornwall as well. "Bin" I remember from my time in neighbouring Bristol, as in: "Wurr's thee bin?" - answer, "I ain't bin nowhurr", or "S'out thurr in the back yard, my lovely".

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              • oddoneout
                Full Member
                • Nov 2015
                • 9135

                "...fell into administration". I've seen this several times recently and am wondering why "fell" replaces "went"? It's almost as if administration was an accident that befell the business out of the blue, rather than being something that is arrived at after a period(sometimes protracted) of preliminary wrangling.

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                • Pulcinella
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                  • Feb 2014
                  • 10872

                  Since March Sainsbury’s has invested more than £188 million in lowering prices across more than 120 essentials, such as bread, butter, milk, pasta, chicken and lavatory paper.

                  From The Times this morning.
                  It still insists on using this expression rather than toilet paper/roll/tissue.

                  Does anyone else?

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                  • smittims
                    Full Member
                    • Aug 2022
                    • 4034

                    I have honestly never heard the term 'lavatory paper'. In our family we have always said 'loo roll'.

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                    • vinteuil
                      Full Member
                      • Nov 2010
                      • 12765

                      Originally posted by Pulcinella View Post
                      Since March Sainsbury’s has invested more than £188 million in lowering prices across more than 120 essentials, such as bread, butter, milk, pasta, chicken and lavatory paper.

                      From The Times this morning.
                      It still insists on using this expression rather than toilet paper/roll/tissue.

                      Does anyone else?
                      ... I think 'lavatory' v 'toilet' is still very much a shibboleth* - at least for people of my age. It doesn't seem to be a matter of concern for the younger generation.



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                      • kernelbogey
                        Full Member
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 5735

                        National Trust properties have only Lavatories.

                        So reassuring.

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                        • oddoneout
                          Full Member
                          • Nov 2015
                          • 9135

                          Originally posted by Pulcinella View Post
                          Since March Sainsbury’s has invested more than £188 million in lowering prices across more than 120 essentials, such as bread, butter, milk, pasta, chicken and lavatory paper.

                          From The Times this morning.
                          It still insists on using this expression rather than toilet paper/roll/tissue.

                          Does anyone else?
                          No-one that I know. Even my maternal grandparents, who were sticklers for "proper", didn't refer to it that way that I recollect. My memories are more of preparing the squares of newspaper to be hung up in the outside toilet - which we were expected to use during the day. Not as primitive (apart from the paper) as it sounds, as the house had a verandah along part of the back wall which sheltered the various doors.
                          I'm afraid it's been bog roll in this household for as long as I can remember, with kitchen roll being GBR - giant bog roll.

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                          • smittims
                            Full Member
                            • Aug 2022
                            • 4034

                            As a reader of 19th-century novels, I can't get over the change in the meaning of 'toilet' , which used to mean one's appearance when washed and brushed.

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                            • Sir Velo
                              Full Member
                              • Oct 2012
                              • 3225

                              Originally posted by smittims View Post
                              As a reader of 19th-century novels, I can't get over the change in the meaning of 'toilet' , which used to mean one's appearance when washed and brushed.
                              Cf contemporary usage of "washroom" and/or "bathroom"; both, basically, euphemisms for more basic bodily functions.

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                              • cloughie
                                Full Member
                                • Dec 2011
                                • 22110

                                Originally posted by kernelbogey View Post
                                National Trust properties have only Lavatories.

                                So reassuring.
                                …that nomenclature is on the decline - some are now called toilets!

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