Originally posted by french frank
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It is so integral to speech patterns of people from a sector of the population that they can't seem to do anything about it. I'd see it as having become a peer group convention at a certain time when it was felt required for social inclusion. It is, without doubt, principally women. I think it does have a meaning. It isn't questioning as it pertains to what is being said which is always a statement or an answer rather than a question. The implied question is "are you understanding me?" or "can you understand me?" in a context where there is no reason why they shouldn't be understood, ie they are professional women of 32-42, erudite and with expertise in their fields. It is an "uncertain" carry-over from their teens.
There are plenty of professional men on "You and Yours" etc of a similar age who do the same. They are probably the ones who also spent a lot of time watching "Neighbours"!
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