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  • P. G. Tipps
    Full Member
    • Jun 2014
    • 2978

    Gentlemen doffing their hats/caps to ladies when greeting them in the street ...

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    • greenilex
      Full Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 1626

      Trouble is, they didn't bother doffing to the ones not considered ladies.

      So we wimmin cannot approve...

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      • vinteuil
        Full Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 12964

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        ... men standing up when a woman comes into a room / gets up from a chair.

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        • Bryn
          Banned
          • Mar 2007
          • 24688

          Originally posted by vinteuil View Post
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          ... men standing up when a woman comes into a room / gets up from a chair.
          Gone, along with women 'knowing their place', thank goodness.

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          • ahinton
            Full Member
            • Nov 2010
            • 16123

            Originally posted by Bryn View Post
            Gone, along with women 'knowing their place', thank goodness.
            Indeed.

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            • french frank
              Administrator/Moderator
              • Feb 2007
              • 30526

              Originally posted by P. G. Tipps View Post
              Gentlemen doffing their hats/caps to ladies when greeting them in the street ...
              Are you sure? No gentlemen round these parts (well, no ladies either) and hard to doff a hoodie …
              It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.

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              • P. G. Tipps
                Full Member
                • Jun 2014
                • 2978

                Originally posted by vinteuil View Post
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                ... men standing up when a woman comes into a room / gets up from a chair.
                Indeed and also extending an invitation to the grateful lady to park her very own posterior instead on the chivalrously vacated gentleman's chair ...

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                • LeMartinPecheur
                  Full Member
                  • Apr 2007
                  • 4717

                  Originally posted by P. G. Tipps View Post
                  Indeed and also extending an invitation to the grateful lady to park her very own posterior instead on the chivalrously vacated gentleman's chair ...
                  It's also fun to see if one gets thanked or glared at if one holds a door open for an approaching female.

                  I do of course hold to the view that they are far too weak and/or ignorant about mechanics to do it for themselves...
                  I keep hitting the Escape key, but I'm still here!

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                  • Serial_Apologist
                    Full Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 37872

                    Originally posted by french frank View Post
                    Are you sure? No gentlemen round these parts (well, no ladies either) and hard to doff a hoodie …
                    Hats (on men) have made quite a comeback here in London - mostly of the broad-rimmed variety. I've taken to wearing my 1960s black leather trilby again lately - wonder when someone'll run off with it...

                    Speaking in St Sprees this morning of disappearances from shelves (as one does) the checkout lady mentioned Fray Bentos meat pies, which, since I've been mostly a veggie now for some time, I'd not noticed.

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                    • ardcarp
                      Late member
                      • Nov 2010
                      • 11102

                      I've just cleaned the fridge.

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                      • Serial_Apologist
                        Full Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 37872

                        Originally posted by ardcarp View Post
                        I've just cleaned the fridge.
                        In the 1980s I had a wonderful, Soviet Union-manufactured fridge, which defrosted automatically and then self-drained whenever overloaded with ice, then switched itself back on, so that I never lost any perishables.

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                        • jean
                          Late member
                          • Nov 2010
                          • 7100

                          Originally posted by LeMartinPecheur View Post
                          It's also fun to see if one gets thanked or glared at if one holds a door open for an approaching female.

                          I do of course hold to the view that they are far too weak and/or ignorant about mechanics to do it for themselves...
                          It's even more ineresting, if you're a woman, to watch the reaction if you hold a door open for an approaching male.

                          Consternation doesn't begin to describe it - because they're well aware of the subtext involving weakness/ignorance.

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                          • Pulcinella
                            Host
                            • Feb 2014
                            • 11129

                            My holding of doors for others is in general a non-gender-specific activity, based more often than not on whether it is better for me to go in/out first or the other person(s) involved to do so; and I invariably thank anyone who does hold a door and let me through!

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                            • teamsaint
                              Full Member
                              • Nov 2010
                              • 25234

                              Originally posted by Pulcinella View Post
                              My holding of doors for others is in general a non-gender-specific activity, based more often than not on whether it is better for me to go in/out first or the other person(s) involved to do so; and I invariably thank anyone who does hold a door and let me through!

                              Couldn't have put it better myself. I also take into account whether or not the persons concerned are carrying a tray of tea/coffee, but again in a gender neutral way.
                              Of course where I work it's usually women carrying the refreshments.



                              But there are lots more women than men working there........
                              I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own.

                              I am not a number, I am a free man.

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                              • Serial_Apologist
                                Full Member
                                • Dec 2010
                                • 37872

                                Originally posted by jean View Post
                                ineresting
                                The almost disappearance of Cockney, and its successive replacement, first, by Estuary ("ineresting"), then during the past couple of decades by what has become known as Multicultural London English, was the subject of a Radio 4 programme yesterday. 'Oo woulda ever fought it'd 'appen!"

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