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  • Pabmusic
    Full Member
    • May 2011
    • 5537

    #31
    Originally posted by teamsaint View Post
    oh, I have Richard. I think we all have....
    And (if you're like me) we've already had the comments. No need to wait till death.

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    • Beef Oven!
      Ex-member
      • Sep 2013
      • 18147

      #32
      Originally posted by jean View Post
      That's not gender stereotyping, it's sexuality stereotyping!

      .
      Good edit, makes all the difference!

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      • Eine Alpensinfonie
        Host
        • Nov 2010
        • 20570

        #33
        There's a danger in decluttering.

        After my father died, it was necessary to dispose of a great deal of clutter. Just about everything in the garage was junk and could be disposed of. In the loft, there were many old postcards written to someone called Mabel. They seemed to have no value whatever. They went in the skip along with everything else.

        A few months later, I began a project to write my family's history, based upon notes my father had made, and a large collection of old photos. When my sister heard of what I was doing, she sent me some letters my father had written. One of these referred to a collection of postcards he had kept - postcards my great uncle (then in British army) had sent to his daughter during WWI.

        Oops!

        Fortunately this was the only mistake I made in destroying evidence of family history.

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        • Beef Oven!
          Ex-member
          • Sep 2013
          • 18147

          #34
          Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
          There's a danger in decluttering.

          After my father died, it was necessary to dispose of a great deal of clutter. Just about everything in the garage was junk and could be disposed of. In the loft, there were many old postcards written to someone called Mabel. They seemed to have no value whatever. They went in the skip along with everything else.

          A few months later, I began a project to write my family's history, based upon notes my father had made, and a large collection of old photos. When my sister heard of what I was doing, she sent me some letters my father had written. One of these referred to a collection of postcards he had kept - postcards my great uncle (then in British army) had sent to his daughter during WWI.

          Oops!

          Fortunately this was the only mistake I made in destroying evidence of family history.
          I threw out a whole bunch of letters I had in my loft. Various family members. I've had no come-back, but it frustrates me to think what might have been in there.

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          • Jonathan
            Full Member
            • Mar 2007
            • 945

            #35
            I've always kept things as they might be useful in the future but since we moved house, I've been a little less hoarding and things are gradually getting tidied.
            Best regards,
            Jonathan

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            • Eine Alpensinfonie
              Host
              • Nov 2010
              • 20570

              #36
              Think very hard before throwing books away. I've regretted doing this quite a few times, and have searched the internet to find them again, often paying quite high prices.

              And I've given up with this one.

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              • ferneyhoughgeliebte
                Gone fishin'
                • Sep 2011
                • 30163

                #37
                Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
                Think very hard before throwing books away. I've regretted doing this quite a few times ...
                I have done this only once (twenty-two years ago): NEVER AGAIN!
                [FONT=Comic Sans MS][I][B]Numquam Satis![/B][/I][/FONT]

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                • Serial_Apologist
                  Full Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 37648

                  #38
                  Originally posted by Eine Alpensinfonie View Post
                  Think very hard before throwing books away. I've regretted doing this quite a few times, and have searched the internet to find them again, often paying quite high prices.

                  And I've given up with this one.
                  Desperanto

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                  • EdgeleyRob
                    Guest
                    • Nov 2010
                    • 12180

                    #39
                    It's interesting to see that people had so much clutter even thousands of years ago.
                    The only way to get rid of it all was to bury it, and then some archaeologist went and dug it all up

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                    • LeMartinPecheur
                      Full Member
                      • Apr 2007
                      • 4717

                      #40
                      I liked the word 'upcluttering' in an earlier post! That's what I still do, and hope to continue doing for years yet

                      Unfortunately Mrs LMP has told me very firmly that there is no more scope for 'upsizing' this house and is therefore trying to introduce a 'One in, one out' policy on books and discs
                      I keep hitting the Escape key, but I'm still here!

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                      • Nick Armstrong
                        Host
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 26527

                        #41
                        It's the word
                        Originally posted by LeMartinPecheur View Post
                        trying
                        which amused me in that post!
                        "...the isle is full of noises,
                        Sounds and sweet airs, that give delight and hurt not.
                        Sometimes a thousand twangling instruments
                        Will hum about mine ears, and sometime voices..."

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                        • Serial_Apologist
                          Full Member
                          • Dec 2010
                          • 37648

                          #42
                          Originally posted by Caliban View Post
                          It's the word

                          which amused me in that post!
                          Yes - extremely trying!

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                          • Flosshilde
                            Full Member
                            • Nov 2010
                            • 7988

                            #43
                            Originally posted by ferneyhoughgeliebte View Post
                            I have done this only once (twenty-two years ago): NEVER AGAIN!
                            Throwing books away, or regretting throwing books away?

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                            • Flosshilde
                              Full Member
                              • Nov 2010
                              • 7988

                              #44
                              Originally posted by Anastasius View Post
                              I find a good clear-out a very cathartic and rewarding experience. One of the best Christmases we had was hiring a skip and having a darn good clear-out on Boxing Day.
                              The presents that year couldn't have been that bad, surely?

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                              • ferneyhoughgeliebte
                                Gone fishin'
                                • Sep 2011
                                • 30163

                                #45
                                Originally posted by Flosshilde View Post
                                Throwing books away ... ?
                                [FONT=Comic Sans MS][I][B]Numquam Satis![/B][/I][/FONT]

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