Originally posted by Pabmusic
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But I absolutely agree with you
My son finds it enormously empowering to know that he isn't some kind of oddity.
The ability to concentrate and focus that he has is something that most if us struggle with, if one removed all the people on the spectrum from music we would have some very small orchestras indeed
I always think it's important to remember that much of what is considered a "condition" of Aspergers is purely to do with social norms ...... for example
To know the date of birth of every player in Manchester United is considered "normal" and an expression of a "passion"
To know the precise details of the construction of WW2 pill boxes on the East coast of England (one of my son's passions) is considered a bit "weird" and a "symptom" of his autism
How about knowing the BWV # of every Bach cantata ?
or
Being able to memorise and play every Beethoven piano sonata ?
It's not "PC" nonsense to have a bit more respect for these people , so many things that we value in the world (there's a lot wrong with microsoft software but Bill Gates is a prime example of a very successful person with Aspergers) have come from them.
The "suffering" that people sometimes refer to comes not from ASD but other peoples attitudes and reactions to what would seem to be a "bit strange" .
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