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Originally posted by Simon View PostThere have, historically, and often for good natural reasons, been tendencies for males and females to gravitate to different work and roles in society.
Of course this is true
when I suggested the same to my wife with regard to her "superior" skills in the washing up she made my voice go up a couple of octaves
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I'm a bit sorry I made mention of 'the female organist'. I need to unpick some personal baggage here. My most talented organ pupil ever was a girl whom I started teaching at 14 and who won an organ scholarship to a Cambridge College. This was very unusual in those days as it was an even more male-dominated scene than it is now. So I am a big supporter of equal opportunities for woman, and delighted we have people such as Sarah Baldock in a major cathedral post.
Decantor, I'm sorry if you think I should use the word 'lady'. I got into trouble once when asked to run a chamber choir. Out of past habit I referred, in the first rehearsal, to 'the ladies', meaning S and (female) A. I did hear a sharp intake of breath, and was taken to one side afterwards and warned there were some young women who strongly objected to the 'L' word. Next time I addressed them as 'women' but that met with equal disapproval from the ones who preferred to be 'ladies'. I have always settled for S and female A since, even when discussing such matters as changing facilities and dress. Luckily, none of the men minded being called men. I think we have to be very careful using the word 'ladies' nowadays as it implies a past chivalry that most fully emancipated women do not like. So unless you are in the golf or tennis club, or addressing the wife of a knight of the realm, beware!
Finally, should I, in my original post, just have said there was an excellent organ accompanist without mention of sex? Maybe; but it is sufficiently unusual, even now, to see a woman in an important church role that I felt it worth comment.
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Originally posted by ardcarp View Post...Finally, should I, in my original post, just have said there was an excellent organ accompanist without mention of sex? Maybe; but it is sufficiently unusual, even now, to see a woman in an important church role that I felt it worth comment.
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AscribeUntoTheLad
Originally posted by Simon View PostThere have, historically, and often for good natural reasons, been tendencies for males and females to gravitate to different work and roles in society. Most cathedral organists have been, and still are, male. Therefore to mention the slightly unusual fact that this was a lady is hardly sexist, but merely a statement of fact and clarification. Unless one has a particular chip one one's shoulder, which, of course, some people do.
Yes, feel free to make the observation that the organist was female (and lament that there are not more women in organ lofts) but to call Ms Louprette the "Lady Organist" makes her sound like some kind of oddity.
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Magnificat
Originally posted by AscribeUntoTheLad View PostActually, the main reason for males and females to gravitate to different work and roles in society was that women historically have had vastly fewer rights and opportunities than men.
Yes, feel free to make the observation that the organist was female (and lament that there are not more women in organ lofts) but to call Ms Louprette the "Lady Organist" makes her sound like some kind of oddity.
Are you all seriously trying to say that women do not like being referred to as ladies?
I wonder what Our Most gracious Sovereign Lady the Queen would make of this or even Our Lady Mary.
Do women refuse to use public conveniences?
Lighten up for goodness' sake.
VCC
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Are you all seriously trying to say that women do not like being referred to as ladies?
I have to admit, however, that in Norway, a country one might believe to embrace Scandinavian values of social egalitarianism, the word 'dame' (lady) is used in preference to 'kwinne' (woman) to refer to females in general. How ironic that 'kwinne' is related to our word 'queen'.
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Originally posted by decantor View Post... But she [Renée Anne Louprette] failed my ultimate test: in the fifth-last bar of the Britten Agnus there is an organ chord (A mi, with a high G# added for fun) marked ff; why do so many organists dib out of giving this chord full welly? But yes, [she] gauged her input very well.
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Magnificat
I trust STNY has battened down the hatches.
Wouldn't want their superb choir to be washed away - whatever would Draco do?
VCC.
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Resurrection Man
Originally posted by Simon View Post..... Unless one has a particular chip one one's shoulder, which, of course, some people do.
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