VCC, whether your remarks (Post #30) are intended as rebuke for me or apologia for him, I accept them almost without reserve. I tried to express only some doubts - a barely implied criticism - about BMR's methods, since no one will deny his successes. Even so, the occasion I described was a public, post-term, fun occasion where he had encouraged all present to relax; the lad in question was probably in his last 48 hours as a chorister, and was a volunteer guinea-pig. The flaming was surely misplaced, and embarrassed the audience almost as much as the victim. I'm afraid it may betray a deep insensitivity.
I taught boys of chorister age for 40 years. In sport, music, and academics, I witnessed boys delivering wonderful outcomes for teachers/coaches who scared the living daylights out of them. And only rarely were those boys really unhappy - their joy and pride in achievement generally overcame their discomfort in its achieving. But times have changed, as you observe. I have watched (partly on film) current DoMs conduct rehearsals where the rapport between Director and choristers is heart-warming, but the resultant music is less than spirit-lifting. I am fully aware of the tightrope that has to be walked, as you are too. When you extrapolate into the educational world at large, I share all your misgivings: I'd add that today's softly-softly zeitgeist is more damaging to boys than to girls.
My reservation? You say "but it is rather unfair to criticise him for being someone of his time and for what was his style." Maybe, but that remark could excuse too many excesses.
I taught boys of chorister age for 40 years. In sport, music, and academics, I witnessed boys delivering wonderful outcomes for teachers/coaches who scared the living daylights out of them. And only rarely were those boys really unhappy - their joy and pride in achievement generally overcame their discomfort in its achieving. But times have changed, as you observe. I have watched (partly on film) current DoMs conduct rehearsals where the rapport between Director and choristers is heart-warming, but the resultant music is less than spirit-lifting. I am fully aware of the tightrope that has to be walked, as you are too. When you extrapolate into the educational world at large, I share all your misgivings: I'd add that today's softly-softly zeitgeist is more damaging to boys than to girls.
My reservation? You say "but it is rather unfair to criticise him for being someone of his time and for what was his style." Maybe, but that remark could excuse too many excesses.
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