Originally posted by Serial_Apologist
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It's horses for courses but I'm just pointing out that it can be beneficial even if the specific nature of the benefits are unintended. One can analyse until the cows come home but I would say that a variety of music was fundamental to me in my home from very early on. What can actually happen in unfamiliar face to face conversation is that the visual side of everything can feel too intense. I think I realised some decades in that any such intensity was essentially in place of the fact that given instinct there would be music accompanying discourse. These days I probably do "silence" more than I have ever done and it isn't necessarily for the best. I'm happy to let in barking dogs, the sound of the rain and that sort of thing but mostly that is not the backdrop and what one gets from beyond the window is banging and crashing and screaming and diktat and motors and goodness knows what else.
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