Originally posted by oddoneout
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The Eternal Breakfast Debate in a New Place
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It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.
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Originally posted by oddoneout View PostWell if it was a concert of music I didn't like then I wouldn't have it on, but as I don't know it will all be things I don't want to hear then I consider it worth having on. Even if I'm not actively enjoying what I'm hearing it is preferable to listening to the noises in my head when they are being particularly negative - no I'm not talking "hearing voices" just the sometimes relentless and depressing cycle of negativity, depression and anxiety. Combined with pottering in the garden it serves to remind me that there are good, easy to access things in the world, even if I struggle to see them sometimes.
I know this feeling all too well. One reason streaming works for me (Qobuz) is to have music playing, often Baroque instrumental or Plainchant, to soothe and salve the troubled mind.
As do all those birds on the feeders and in the trees....the foraging Squirrels, the Stray Cats at the back door...
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Originally posted by french frank View PostI respect all that as your individual reason (which in some respects amounts to a reliance on radio as a 'comforting sound'). But listening 'in case there might be something on … '? For me, there are other things to think about, be they depressing, negative or worrying. They may not reward thought, but I believe they merit it.
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Originally posted by french frank View PostOne thing that I slightly marvel at is the general(?) assumption that the radio must be on at all, even when the programme isn't greatly to one's taste.
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Originally posted by oddoneout View PostNot so much "in case there's something on" ff but knowing that there will be something, indeed probably several somethings, which will be worth hearing/give me pleasure/make me think, and that I won't have to wait long for them. And yes it is comforting in some respects, but fortunately we haven't yet got to the stage of that being a bar to listening to R3.
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Originally posted by oddoneout View PostWell if it was a concert of music I didn't like then I wouldn't have it on, but as I don't know it will all be things I don't want to hear then I consider it worth having on. Even if I'm not actively enjoying what I'm hearing it is preferable to listening to the noises in my head when they are being particularly negative - no I'm not talking "hearing voices" just the sometimes relentless and depressing cycle of negativity, depression and anxiety. Combined with pottering in the garden it serves to remind me that there are good, easy to access things in the world, even if I struggle to see them sometimes.
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Originally posted by Ein Heldenleben View PostThe therapeutic use of music to allay anxiety goes back to at least turn of the century Alexandria .Turn of the 0th century that is . It’s partly explains why Elgar wrote his first music for a wind band at Powicke mental hospital and there was a Minstrel’s Gallery at the (now closed ) City of London Hospital near Dartford. There’s experimental evidence that music can slow heartbeat. I really recommend mindfulness exercises as well.It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.
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Originally posted by french frank View PostI don't think there's any argument about the therapeutic value of music in general. It's when a particular programme also gives irritation that the therapeutic value is lessened/nullified. So the difference is only how tolerant people can be of ……… [here I provide no description as genuine differences of opinion can give offence]. In fact, there are also certain kinds of music that irritate me intensely: I find it hard to believe I'm the only person here/in the universe who finds this!
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Originally posted by cloughie View PostI must be on you ignore list ff - I’ve mentioned it a number of times on more than one thread!It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.
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Originally posted by french frank View PostI don't think there's any argument about the therapeutic value of music in general. It's when a particular programme also gives irritation that the therapeutic value is lessened/nullified. So the difference is only how tolerant people can be of ……… [here I provide no description as genuine differences of opinion can give offence]. In fact, there are also certain kinds of music that irritate me intensely: I find it hard to believe I'm the only person here/in the universe who finds this!
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Originally posted by oddoneout View PostIf the irritation is more than passing the off switch is used, whether that's for presenter or music. It doesn't automatically undo whatever good has gone before.It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.
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Originally posted by french frank View PostI don't think there's any argument about the therapeutic value of music in general. It's when a particular programme also gives irritation that the therapeutic value is lessened/nullified. So the difference is only how tolerant people can be of ……… [here I provide no description as genuine differences of opinion can give offence]. In fact, there are also certain kinds of music that irritate me intensely: I find it hard to believe I'm the only person here/in the universe who finds this!
This is where it gets interesting - certain types of music will increase heart rate and , used in the psychological sense , arousal. That arousal can be welcome - say at the end of a Wagner opera. Others less so : for example , in my case a lot of contemporary pop music.
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Originally posted by Ein Heldenleben View PostThis is where it gets interesting - certain types of music will increase heart rate and , used in the psychological sense , arousal. That arousal can be welcome - say at the end of a Wagner opera. Others less so : for example , in my case a lot of contemporary pop music.
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Originally posted by cloughie View PostWhoever decided Local radio = A pop music station? Whoever decided that pop music more than 50 years old should not be part of mainstream daytime broadcasting?It isn't given us to know those rare moments when people are wide open and the lightest touch can wither or heal. A moment too late and we can never reach them any more in this world.
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Originally posted by french frank View PostThe marketing department? They think, rightly or wrongly, that that's going to attract a big audience. From that point of view, the older we get the less relevant our preferences . We have an aging population, so they may be wrong, but they're unlikely to lose any sleep over it.
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